When it comes to relationships, especially when the question of
commitment rears its head, you almost instinctively know that your guy isn’t going to take to it like a fish to water.
Now, this isn’t so much of a big deal when you are young and both of you are concentrating on your careers.
Life is good, you’re earning good money, meeting new friends, travelling, enjoying life. All well and good.
But, as time goes on, as a woman you might find your priorities starting to shift.
Thoughts of settling down, getting married and possibly starting a family start to creep in.
For men, their fear of commitment can have a big impact on your
Because, as time goes by and he still doesn’t show any signs of wanting to establish a more permanent relationship, you hear the tick tick ticking sound of a clock somewhere deep inside you.
You’re Not Getting Any Younger
Women become conscious of the need to have children, if that is part of your plan, and this can happen in your twenties or thirties whilst for some women, its not until they turn forty that they realize they really do want to start a family.
Guys don’t see it the same way. This is because they don’t have an internal clock that tells them to hurry up and think about having children.
So what happens when you have thoughts of getting engaged and bring up the question of wanting some commitment in your relationship?
Your man pulls away.
You’ll sense him backing of in the relationship.
Maybe he’ll start becoming a bit distant, at first.
He’ll back off.
Which leaves you feeling even more nervous about your relationship.
You’ll start to wonder why you spent so much time in this relationship, if he was going to get cold feet at the first mention of commitment.
You might even start to panic as your clock ticking seems to become louder in the wake of your partner reacting not as you hoped.
Does this sound like you?
Don’t worry. It’s common. This is exactly how many men and women would respond in this situation.
It’s not just you.
We can almost hear you heaving that huge sigh of relief
Problems always seem so much lighter when you know that someone else has experienced the very same thing.
It’s comforting to know this happens…..A LOT.
So it must be even more good news to know that you can actually resolve this situation and, all things being equal, you might even end up with a man who realizes that he wants to commit to you after all.
Yes, you might even end up being the girl who gets the man and the ring too!
But in order to do that, you have to learn how to get him to commit first.
How can you do this without coming across as being pushy and demanding? The last thing you want to do is to give your guy ultimatums.
Is Marriage A Dying Institution?
The other thing that has impacted our lives and the way we meet people and start relationships is technology.
With the sudden explosion in social media and online dating, it appears that many people seem to prefer casual relationships over longer lasting relationships.
When it’s so easy to chat to someone who is in another country and to make friends all over the world, the thought of settling down with one guy or gal forever might seem boring and old-school in comparison.
“Friends with Benefits” is a term you hear more of these days…..there’s even a funny film starring Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis (you can find out more about it here).
You can satisfy your sexual needs and still live a young, free, single and uncomplicated life! No commitment necessary.
But what if you want more? What if you want the whole meet-your-prince-and-live-happily-ever-after story?
Is that even possible in this day and age?
Can you go from finding the right guy, from knowing how to find your soul mate to becoming his girlfriend? Just how do you get him to fall in love with you?
And once you reach that stage do you know how to get him to love you more?
And once you become his girlfriend, do you know how to keep a guy?
It’s all well and good you being head over heels in love with him but how do you keep a guy interested in you?
More importantly, how do you move from being his girlfriend to becoming his fiancé?
You might be ready to get engaged but do you how to get him to propose?
Knowing how he shuns commitment, knowing how much he hates all talk of weddings and babies, how will you ever get him to propose?
How To Get Him To Commit
The solution is simple but learning to apply it requires you to delve deep into the minds of men in order to fully understand how they think and why they behave as they do.
Whether you are single and looking for love, or in a relationship but unable to move it forward to the next stage of commitment, whether that be getting engaged or getting married, living together or starting a family, there are certain strategies you can apply to increase your chances of keeping your man.
And you can do all of this without seeming overbearing or pushy.
In fact, your man won’t even realize you’re doing anything. He’ll think he made the decisions himself – which is just what you want.
Click here to learn how you can go from “Hello” to “I Do” as fast as womanly possible………..
In this book you will discover:
- how to pick the right guy
- the 3 core elements of lasting and real attraction
- how to pick your right guy
- what men really find attractive
- why strength is magnetic
- how to become his girlfriend
- how to remove his fear of relationships
- how to move from girlfriend to fiancé
- how to give him the space to fall in love with you
- how KISS stops cheating
- how to become the girl who gets the ring
If you’re worried about meeting your soul mate, if you fear you’ll never find him while you’re young, if you’ve met the right guy but he doesn’t want to commit, there is still hope. It’s never too late.
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